For National Breastfeeding Month, Project Motherhood sat down with fathers/partners to discuss an often-overlooked part of the breastfeeding journey: the role of the partner.

While only one parent can physically breastfeed, breastfeeding is rarely a one-person experience. A partner’s understanding, encouragement, and involvement can have a meaningful impact on a family’s feeding journey.

Research continues to show that partner support plays an important role in breastfeeding success. A 2024 meta-analysis found that when fathers or partners were actively involved through education and support, exclusive breastfeeding rates were 24% higher overall, with improvements seen early in the postpartum period and continuing through the first several months.

We asked dads to share what they learned, how they supported their partners, and what they wished other fathers knew before welcoming a baby.

Breastfeeding Starts Before Baby Arrives

“When my partner told me she wanted to exclusively breastfeed, I’ll admit it—I thought my role would be pretty limited. After all, I couldn’t breastfeed our baby. What I quickly learned was that while breastfeeding is something only one parent can physically do, it is rarely a one-person journey. That changed how I viewed my role completely.”
— J.S.

One of the most important ways partners can support breastfeeding is by learning before the baby arrives.

“Understanding what breastfeeding looks like, how often babies feed, the importance of skin-to-skin contact, cluster feeding, and common early challenges helped me become a calmer, more supportive partner. Instead of trying to “fix” every difficult moment, I learned when to encourage, when to listen, and when to help my partner access professional support.”
— M.R.

Breastfeeding isn’t always intuitive. It is a learned skill—for both parents.

Support Doesn’t Mean Taking Over

Partners may not be able to breastfeed, but they can play an essential role in making the experience easier and more sustainable.

“I couldn’t feed the baby directly, but I could make breastfeeding easier. Sometimes that meant bringing water and snacks during feeds, taking care of diaper changes and burping, creating a calm environment during late-night feeds, protecting uninterrupted feeding time from well-meaning visitors, and offering encouragement on the difficult days. Those small actions added up in ways I hadn’t expected.”
— A.T.

When a breastfeeding parent feels supported, they are more likely to feel confident—and confidence matters.

Know When to Call in the Village

No family should feel like they have to figure breastfeeding out alone. Lactation consultants, midwives, pediatricians, pelvic health professionals, and postpartum care providers all play an important role. Asking for help is not a sign that something is wrong—it is often what helps families reach their feeding goals.

At Project Motherhood, we believe partners should be included in these conversations too. Through the Project Motherhood Perks Program and Prenatal classes, families have access to a network of trusted professionals who support every stage of pregnancy, postpartum, and infant feeding. Because informed parents make empowered parents.

It’s About More Than Feeding

Breastfeeding can be emotional. It can be joyful, exhausting, empowering, frustrating—or all of those things in one day. Sometimes what your partner needs most isn’t advice. It is someone to say:

“You’re doing an amazing job. We’ve got this.”

This National Breastfeeding Month

At Project Motherhood, we celebrate every family navigating their unique feeding journey. Whether breastfeeding comes easily, requires extra support, involves pumping, combination feeding, or takes an unexpected path, every parent deserves compassion, evidence-based guidance, and a strong support system.

Because successful breastfeeding isn’t just about one parent. It’s about the team standing beside them. And sometimes, the most important thing a father or partner can do is simply be present.

Together, that’s how we help build healthier families—one supported parent at a time.

Continue Building Your Support System

A supportive partner can make a meaningful difference throughout the breastfeeding journey—but they’re just one part of your village. Family, friends, healthcare professionals, and community resources all play an important role in helping parents feel informed, supported, and confident.

Want to learn how to build your support network before baby arrives? Read our companion article, “Building Your Village: Support Through Pregnancy and Postpartum,” to discover practical ways to create a strong foundation for every stage of your parenting journey.

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